tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post3041886277971183276..comments2024-03-24T04:25:22.936-05:00Comments on DUMBWIT TELLHER: In the Form of a GiftDumbwit Tellherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148671166061931241noreply@blogger.comBlogger52125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-16792896534395803432009-12-29T07:05:42.967-06:002009-12-29T07:05:42.967-06:00Dear Deb:
This is a belated note as i just read th...Dear Deb:<br />This is a belated note as i just read this post. I really feel for you. Having 2 sons myself I look forward all year to our christmas time together as a family. As you, i sent my elder son to China to work as a teacher's aid with unprivileged children, he went on to the University in Changhai for a few months afterwards. I have tried to show the real world to my children, the world of men, women, children, animals, nature...my Christmas gifts have not been about toys, gadgets or money but of traveling to far away lands among foreign cultures so they would open their heart and their understanding of human needs and dignity. I feel for you holding your mother's hand for her last Christmas without the physical presence of your children and the news about your pet. Sometimes, we are facing more than we think we can handle and all I can do as a virtual friend is offer a few words of support and comfort in knowing that the only control you have in life and fate is the power of love and letting know the ones you love how much they mean to you and hold their hand...Francine Gardnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02042631088215474109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-25495270942681030192009-12-23T08:20:52.724-06:002009-12-23T08:20:52.724-06:00Oh Deb, I do hope you get to spend some time with ...Oh Deb, I do hope you get to spend some time with your Mom for Christmas. I'm sure she would love to hear how much these childhood Christmas memories mean to you. She is lucky to have such a wonderful and loving daughter. Your son sounds like a great guy (of course he is, he had a great mom). And oh dear, your poor pup. I do hope that your baby is ok. My dogs are like my kids, and I know how unbearable it is to think that they can't stay with us forever. Keeping my finger, toes, everything else crossed for good news. Big hugs to you, girlie!Marsi @ The Cottage Cheesehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01930251048275030065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-858753929241909902009-12-22T06:43:22.168-06:002009-12-22T06:43:22.168-06:00Oh Deb, since I had no internet for a week I total...Oh Deb, since I had no internet for a week I totally missed this post (must be in my 600+ things on my Reader). I'm so sorry about your Mom and your dog and just tough times. I hate that for you. You are always the first one with a kind word or comment and it makes my day! You are right, Christmas is about famiy and friends and great memories, not all that other "stuff". You all have a Blessed time together and I'm thinking about you. Much love and many hugs! You are an amazing person!<br /><br />BTW - I lost got laid off twice in one year,from two different jobs in different cities back in 2002. I always said I should have written a country song about it :o)SpryOnTheWallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16149135530530458132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-73740633247026011452009-12-22T06:24:11.737-06:002009-12-22T06:24:11.737-06:00Deb, you're so awesome!!! Thanks a million for...Deb, you're so awesome!!! Thanks a million for all the wonderful things you write and say... and for turning me on to Jenni's blog. It slays me! Peace and Love this Christmas to you and yours! xoxo kitty.Kittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15308101220891195220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-17857640212760093402009-12-22T05:44:10.400-06:002009-12-22T05:44:10.400-06:00Dearest Deb, My heart just goes out to you with de...Dearest Deb, My heart just goes out to you with deapest sincerity. You can never be prepared for the loss of a loved one, including our furry friends. My wish for you this Christmas is that you will find strength in the memories and anticipation of many good things to come. God bless,<br />Hayley xPorchlight Interiorshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05171642803489298973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-84579531332264817512009-12-22T01:19:15.293-06:002009-12-22T01:19:15.293-06:00I hope good news comes your way!I hope good news comes your way!Fifi Flowershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14186646442542919342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-73114566116667872572009-12-21T18:32:57.103-06:002009-12-21T18:32:57.103-06:00I hope your fur baby is ok D. And I hope that you ...I hope your fur baby is ok D. And I hope that you can smile through your sadness and have a wonderful holiday!BonBon Rose Girls Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10699626979106427874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-20372419131581191442009-12-21T06:46:23.371-06:002009-12-21T06:46:23.371-06:00Dear Deb, I'm hoping the news you get will be ...Dear Deb, I'm hoping the news you get will be good. It's seems that you are dealing with so many challenges right now. Try to smile and stay positive. You are in my thoughts and prayers my friend. I love the way your son thinks. It's SO great! I too am so proud that the chain of racism is being broken with my children.Outside The Lineshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14692567007524460658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-56080904027699990102009-12-21T06:07:20.969-06:002009-12-21T06:07:20.969-06:00I am so sorry to hear of your difficult time this ...I am so sorry to hear of your difficult time this year, I can't even imagine. Why does it sometimes seem that so many negative things happen all at once? My childhood dog got cancer when I went to college and it broke my heart.... and yet what a blessing to have your son visit and what a blessing he is. <br /><br />This Christmas I am thankful for your beautiful blog...always providing such beauty and inspiration! <br />xoxo<br />RachelChicago Chic https://www.blogger.com/profile/01096421257707218003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-18214002795557811082009-12-21T04:24:04.806-06:002009-12-21T04:24:04.806-06:00Hi Deb - just stopped by to wish you and your fami...Hi Deb - just stopped by to wish you and your family a Merry Christmas. Hope you have a safe and happy holiday. LeighBrabourne Farmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17001504570826232809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-82845071928135082292009-12-21T02:54:04.240-06:002009-12-21T02:54:04.240-06:00Hi there, I'm new here, so glad I found you th...Hi there, I'm new here, so glad I found you through French Blue,you have one Stylish blog, speaking as one who works in this area.Adore the sledge shot, I will be back for more!Merry Christmas to you! Sharon xxMy Passport to Stylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17625430050811986186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-70657887147790811222009-12-20T21:02:08.522-06:002009-12-20T21:02:08.522-06:00deb... i am so sad to read this tonight. my heart ...deb... i am so sad to read this tonight. my heart goes out to you and i will be praying that you are blessed this christmas with the love and care of your precious family. big kiss to your mommy... and father... <br />i dont know what i will do one day when mine go... until then i will treasure every moment i have with them. <br /><br />a friend of mine lost her mother this year and she said" i went thru my emails and found one from my mom. it said, honey your dad and i are out on the deck drinking coffee and thinking of you" ...we usually look at those and think cute.. or whatever... and now that she is gone she LOVES IT and it made her cry... she told me, "if only i could get one of those again"... i think of that everytime my mom, dad, sister brother call or write me and email. i am so happy you will be with your father and comfort one another... <br />and i hope your furry friend gets well soon.... xoxo pamred tickinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09400289072356876224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-29612428159182390602009-12-20T17:35:35.407-06:002009-12-20T17:35:35.407-06:00it's been a real shit sandwich around here the...it's been a real shit sandwich around here the last few days; every morning i take another bite. learning out what kind of beautiful human you raised has lifted my spirits this afternoon. nicely done. happy holidays to you; peace and love - kittyKittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15308101220891195220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-28030918157551605852009-12-20T17:21:02.748-06:002009-12-20T17:21:02.748-06:00P.S. - Btw, I totally DIG the vintage family Chris...P.S. - Btw, I totally DIG the vintage family Christmas photos!!Anthonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08876509089526819429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-52406340657092985842009-12-20T17:18:50.917-06:002009-12-20T17:18:50.917-06:00Deb, I sure do hope that fateful phone call from y...Deb, I sure do hope that fateful phone call from your vet turned out to be a GOOD one. But if not, I feel there's almost always a reason.<br /><br />However, this IS just about the CRAPPIEST time of year to deal with something like this! All of the related stress, even if your pup turns out cancer-free, totally takes a toll and can completely drain you... I lost a cat to kidney disease several years ago, so I know from experience how difficult it can be to go through all of that. :(<br /><br />Please know that I will be thinking of you and your "furry child" with lots & lots of POSITIVE ENERGY! :)Anthonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08876509089526819429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-67358182604276571322009-12-19T14:42:27.460-06:002009-12-19T14:42:27.460-06:00I'm so sorry this is a rough Christmas! My th...I'm so sorry this is a rough Christmas! My thoughts are with you and your family.Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17204776831565649927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-18474083367064009932009-12-19T08:01:35.210-06:002009-12-19T08:01:35.210-06:00Hi Deb, I'm so sorry that you have been going ...Hi Deb, I'm so sorry that you have been going through a difficult time, I hope your mom and you have the most beautiful Christmas together this year. It just breaks my heart, why oh why can't life always be happy?? Your son is amazing, thanks to having an amazing mom like you! I agree with what he said and I too have often thought that when filling out forms. As for your sweet dog, I read your comment on Barbara's post at a Moveable Feast, so I believe everything is OK, thank God.<br />I wonder what it will be like one day when my three sons are gone and many of our pets have passed. I hope all young parents out there slow down and just enjoy every minute, it goes so fast.<br />I'll be thinking of you and praying for your mom.<br />xoxoBunny, The Paris Househttp://www.theparishouse.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-9124380713865768912009-12-19T03:40:47.998-06:002009-12-19T03:40:47.998-06:00Darling Deb, I am so sorry you are experiencing so...Darling Deb, I am so sorry you are experiencing so many difficulties. Darling, I have been praying for your mum as I will continue to do so. My thoughts and prayers are with you, be strong, I am always here for you. <br /><br />Love & Hugs<br />DuchessDuchess of Teahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08369048590824656652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-86380674658232295542009-12-19T00:44:30.184-06:002009-12-19T00:44:30.184-06:00Should have been...."the kids having fond mem...Should have been...."the kids having fond memories.".. geeez... you would never guess English is my first language would you?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15669318430348189265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-52135537385535649952009-12-19T00:43:28.383-06:002009-12-19T00:43:28.383-06:00WOW..I have been thinking about doing a post about...WOW..I have been thinking about doing a post about the same thing all morning... How all of my best Chrismtas memories have NOTHING to do with the gifts but all of the time I spent with my parents... the games the baking etc. My kids are still little...but I think them have fond memories & just being good people is the BEST gift I can ask for. Sending prayers to you & your family. -Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15669318430348189265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-89982642794315738512009-12-18T14:33:59.976-06:002009-12-18T14:33:59.976-06:00I'm so sorry for all you are dealing with righ...I'm so sorry for all you are dealing with right now. You are obviously a strong and courageous woman and your role as mother, daughter, wife, realtor, blogger...is a blessing for those whose lives you touch. You have been an inspiration to me in the short amount of time that I've come to know you through this blog. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers as you journey through this challenging time. God Bless you, Deborah <br />I can only imagine what a treasure you are to your Mom! xo TerriLa Dolfinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10890526795159739411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-87859355415436100142009-12-18T14:28:37.099-06:002009-12-18T14:28:37.099-06:00Hi honey, Big blessings to your Mom.
So so hoping...Hi honey, Big blessings to your Mom.<br /><br />So so hoping furry one is okay, try and be strong, it's so tough I know. <br /><br />I just loved the super stylish photo's of your fam ... very cool.<br /><br />Your kids are gorgeous and sound gorgeous on the inside too, you must be so proud.<br /><br />Thoughts are with you this Christmas Deb,<br />xoxox DJdebra@dustjackethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02397055465607649038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-9542027543466732542009-12-18T14:00:13.395-06:002009-12-18T14:00:13.395-06:00my dear Deb- sorry for the challenges you are faci...my dear Deb- sorry for the challenges you are facing and will be thinking of you and your furkid especially today.<br /><br />I too like the new header, on a positive note! <br />Hugs, EmmieSouthern Aspirationshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00042045652329926178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-24270983099624957172009-12-18T12:04:33.023-06:002009-12-18T12:04:33.023-06:00I hope your pup is okay. I am sorry this is a har...I hope your pup is okay. I am sorry this is a hard Christmas, I will be thinking about you!Haven and Homehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12747895184154272085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118984659862108570.post-14150826273279097162009-12-18T11:26:22.032-06:002009-12-18T11:26:22.032-06:00Hi Deb, Christmas is a tough time at the best of t...Hi Deb, Christmas is a tough time at the best of times. I am so very sorry yours has sadness this year. But as you say, you did a fabulous job raising that son of yours and that's no small thing. Keep that close to your heart, and give blessings to your Mom's being here for Christmas this year...things will look up again.<br /><br />Chin to the Wind!<br /><br />Wishing you peace at Christmas and the New Year<br /><br />Kit*Chic Provence*https://www.blogger.com/profile/06520485138167646348noreply@blogger.com